Try eharmony. It’s pricey but was worth it for us. It’s safer, the way it sets it up. People can’t see you if you aren’t interested after intitual contact. It sends you profiles based on your answers to a set of questions. Also in my case it sent me profiles of type of men that I’ve not seen on other sites, or there weren’t shown up in matches or I wouldn’t naturally attract them or be attracted to. It made me go for men I’d maybe not choose myself but they’d be better choice for me. I clearly needed help