I tried eharmony once years ago and didn't like the format. Like, you couldn't just carry on or initiate an actual conversation with the person, you had to use their pre-set question and answer format to communicate, forcing no real conversation until these questions were answered back and forth first. I didn't like that aspect. Maybe they've changed it since then -- this was probably ten years ago now. But that may be a good site for me to try when I am really ready for a more serious commitment and relationship. =)