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Originally Posted by golden_eve
I tried eharmony once years ago and didn't like the format. Like, you couldn't just carry on or initiate an actual conversation with the person, you had to use their pre-set question and answer format to communicate, forcing no real conversation until these questions were answered back and forth first. I didn't like that aspect. Maybe they've changed it since then -- this was probably ten years ago now. But that may be a good site for me to try when I am really ready for a more serious commitment and relationship. =)
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It still works that way and I specifically liked that aspect a lot because it weeds out men who are wrong for me. Saves you time.
For example, if they send you a list of deal breakers and one is “if woman is overweight”. Then I know not to bother even having a conversation. Not because I am overweight as I am not (although I gained since I got married lol) but because it just tells me he is focused on appearances. Red flag. Just an example.
My husband and I talked to each other in about a week after initial exchange of questions. So if you like someone’s responses it goes quick