FYI, Just got an email from her where she b-----d me out good, every other word was a cuss. She is angry that I haven't sent her gifts or been there for her last foot surgery. I explained that she hasn't contacted me, how was I to know what she wanted or needed me to do. She is so angry and depressed. She is talking about dying. I wrote her a kind email back. I really don't know what to do with her. She is hurtful but got upset that I called her that and said I was talking about her everywhere to everyone. i explained that I had only spoken to family and that she needs to be clear what she wants from me. She said she just wanted to be left alone and have her life. Well, I thought I was leaving her alone. Oyvey.