healingme4me - just bc something comes across as straightforward to us does not mean it will to him.

He may have some disorder (such as dementia) which makes understanding more difficult n sometimes impossible - and sometimes people are just oblivious because they simply find something "impossible to believe" - and other times people tend to look more favorably on one person or possibility than the other and any suggestion otherwise gets ignored.

People are not all "black and white" in thoughts or actions - would make the world too simple if they were *sigh*