Trust me .. I did not mean black n white in terms of BPD ... I get enough of that myself bc I have BPD. I simply meant it would be so much easier if ppl truly did see obvious statements all the time when stated .. would save a lot of misunderstandings n arguments.

I do agree with his understanding being out of her control though.

Anyways, as I said I am sorry for upsetting. My mind has been n is in a bad place so sometimes choosing the right words with which to get my point across is difficult at best.

Sorry.