It's water under the bridge. The black/white in terms of forums, the ones that I've noticed this more from are more catered to caregivers/partners of[bpd] and it's a jab.
Apology is accepted. I do see your posts as being supportive of the OP.
It seems my word choice in the word straight forward really struck a nerve? :\
OE said what she meant and meant what she said. It was direct and to the point. What more could she say? She could have vented to her father about her sister, to what avail?