rewards? ... i spent most of my time ducking the flying frying pan when i didnt 'shape up' ... funny how it never seemed reversed... like they felt the pressure to be perfect at all... it was always... "well, im not perfect!" ... so what do i say then?

face it, guys get the dog house... sorry.. a little bitterness may show...

thanks coral... ideas to think about... im not changing myself for 'it' anymore...