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Originally Posted by eskielover
I think many (not all guys) are just out for one thing & they think with all the feminism & sexual freedom crap that all women want that too with the concept everyone is doing that instead of truly listening to the woman they chose to assume & then think like has been said....since everyone thinks that way obviously if I push she will change her mind since "she really doesnt mean what she says. He has probably run into wkmen like that on thebdating scene & thinks they are ALL that way.
Im not sure if you gave off mixed vibes or not. Some guys are that way no matter what mixed vibes or not.
Honestly if the relationship is this COMPLICATED this early on....that is a red flag of a different kind but still a red flag....think seripusly about not going any farther with this one....it will only end up more complicated than it already is.
If he doesnt believe you mean what you say on this he wont believe you mean anything else either
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SO true!
I don't know if I've given mixed signals. HE said that I flirted with him. Perhaps I did. I am very friendly and affectionate and males often misinterpret my friendliness as flirtation.
Still, it's on him for thinking he could change my mind. He owned up to his behavior and told me that I've done nothing wrong and that I HAVE been clear with him all along. So, he at least was adult about it and still wants to be friends.
I ran into him last night at a concert and it was fine. I will probably see him tonight as well.
I think he's just very lonely and is on the rebound himself from a serious relationship breaking up.