Mapman, I am very sorry to hear the news. Like Purple said, at least she's being upfront about it now and you now have the choice, which you have made. I can only imagine how that must feel and what it must be like for you right now.

Yes, keep posting as you need to. I have found PC to be very healing for me through my own breakup, which was not a marriage but an engagement.

Thinking of you ...