I don't think he wants to stop. He has borderline personality disorder and is maybe bipolar but we are just speculating here as he refuses to see a doctor to get a proper diagnosis. He blows hot and cold constantly and I am constantly walking on eggshells around him never knowing when he is going to blow. This whole obsessing about young starlets is a recent thing. The last two years or so. Maybe partially mid-life crisis but I believe it runs deeper than even that.