Move on. Or at least attempt to connect to more people.

If you have never met them and were just talking online, they might not even be who they say they are.

I am sorry to be blunt but “I am going through stuff and can’t talk to you or see you” is a code phrase for “not interested, like to play games, am not who I said I am, seeing other people, want to be left alone”. Etc don’t waste your time