I see no harm in putting your energy into other things for a while. If you feel like your intimate relations are just not panning out, and causing more stress than relief, then maybe it's time to focus on other things you need out of life. Of course, should that random person come along who clicks with you in the way you desire, that would require re-evaluating your no-dating rule. We don't want you missing out, but you can cross that bridge when you come to it.

In the meantime, this is a great time to start this new chapter, too. You're out on your own, with your own living space, and seem ready to get some other things rolling. We'll be here to share ideas or just listen, if this is what you decide to do.