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Originally Posted by wolfgaze
Spidy, I was curious about something and wanted to ask you a personal question - of which you're under no obligation to answer...
I was curious if there is anything about the relationship dynamic between you and this individual and about the types of emotions/feelings that he elicits from you that could be perceived as comparable or similar to a relationship dynamic and feelings evoked from an earlier time in your life (your past). Does your current relationship dynamic with this individual mimic any of the relationships from your past? Does he treat you in a way that evokes certain types of feelings and emotions that you can recall experiencing in your past? And please keep in mind that my question is not limited to 'romantic' relationships or anything - just anyone (including parental figures) who may have interacted with you in a way that would have evoked similar emotional responses as you find yourself experiencing now in relation to this individual.
Thanks for your time...
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That is a very good question! I would have to say that there is not really any specific person from my past that mimics my dynamic with him. Yes, some people say that you subconsciously seek out partners that remind you of your parents. My dad is strict and we donīt ever talk about feelings, just like with Sir. But they are still very different.
When i was about 14 (when your brain is still developing) i talked to quite a few old men online. I wanted care and attention because i felt lonely, and they gave it to me. But they also asked me to do sexual things which i did. And then i met Sir, on a chat site. And he claimed he was saving me from those men, but now heīs becoming one of them...