Abusedtoy... you didn't say but I can only assume that you are Co conscious with your little girl if you know that you were curled up in a ball crying and you know everything that your therapist did to comfort her.

As I stated earlier my little ones have not felt safe enough to come out in therapy. I have only had two parts that have come out to talk to the therapist that I am aware of. Those have been strong protector parts. Usually it seems like they get pissed about something or they really want to tell the therapist something so they will take over and start talking to him. Sometimes they will stay for the whole session other times they only talk for I don't know what few minutes I guess then they Retreat back inside and I come back during the session. When that happens by therapist will say that he was talking with so and so and he will tell me the majority of what was said. Sometimes they throw me under the bus and tell the therapist things I don't want him to know that is probably what drives them to come out so they can tell on me.

A couple times one of them came out just to respond to one question from the therapist I heard them speaking during those times. It was just like something came over me and use my mouth of my body for one sentence and then I was back. Kind of freaky.

You are lucky though because I don't think my male therapist would come anywhere near my little ones if they came out and we're crying or upset. I'm sure he would speak soothingly to them but I know he would not touch them due to their abuse history.