I wouldn't normally under certain circumstances not want work either. Avoidance is often what we need to survive it is what it is. Especially being florid there is alot, certain categories want to please they need to understand that there was folks here before and after that just have other needs. Kids and telling folks what to do shouldn't be the only aim. For us though, since there is ssi /ssdi we have to remain focused on what it tells us to do for therapy sake. Although I wonder if there is a way out of that because it is becoming too serious for some in those categories and those in the external world whom works as wellness folks