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Old Nov 19, 2017, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted by BudFox View Post
Sounds like typical therapist sleight of hand. The clinical persona hides the same petty bullsh*t that everyone else is harboring. And nothing brings out therapist wrath more than a client who is doing poorly. It crashes all the savior and guru fantasies. Too much reality. I was ambushed also, though not so blatantly. As long as I was a devotee, it was a lovefest. But when I clued her in on my real experience of therapy, she went a bit mental. It was all about her. From beginning to end.
I've been doing poorly for most of the two years i've been seeing my T. She has never re-enacted any savior or guru fantasies with me. If she has them, she hides them in the room. I don't even look at her most of the time, prefering to hide in a pillow. She has never once tried to get me to not hide in a pillow, and is okay with whatever I am in the room.