I'm terribly sorry Crypts.

I'm pretty sure you're not asking for a response here, or in your other threads on this sub-forum today. Let us know if it's otherwise.

If it's okay, let me just say I hear you about judgement or silence. I really do.

I'm not sure how helpful I can be for you. But I will try if you ask. Know that any advice I offer people here comes from a desire to help, not just to promote any personal views. If anything I suggest helps, that's wonderful. If not, I take no offense. It doesn't come from a need to be correct (whatever that means in the realm of human relationships, although of course I have values and morals I won't act against). It comes from an desire to help someone find a way that works for them. I have to believe from what I've seen that a lot of people on this forum are like that. I know you call a number of people here friends.

Please keep talking as much as you need to.