Lol....i found that just because someone is older we cant assume they have emotional maturity. The psychologist my H & I were going to before I left commented that my H at the age of 55 had the emotional maturity of a 12 year old....so one never knows until behavior is observed over time to see if words really turn into actions. Thsts why it takes so long to truly get to know some people but can be very much worth the time invested.