Ok - I am not ignoring everything you said. It sounded like a fairly unhealthy friendship bc it sounded one-sided.

My question though is this:
She was bailing out on you most of the time n lying when doing it - so why now is it hard for you when she is finally being upfront about her decision to end the friendship? I understand wanting to know how she felt - but the only she could tell you that since she lied so much, even if she did, trust would be an issue. So, I think it would be best to think of it as a lesson learned (not to let ppl zap your energy while you feel unable to do anything about it) and a weight off of you...and then learn ways of moving forward