Hi OP,

Grath’s last two sentences were what I was also wondering. Is she happy or does she feel like there may be an issue...and can she ultimately sustain herself long-term financially.

I think an evaluation would be in her best interest...not to suggest something is wrong....she may feel judged....perhaps a sensitive approach is best.

Also, perhaps she needs to learn how to achieve some balance in her life. Her obsessions and projects do seem unusual (e.g., fur suits) - yet I could easily read books all day, for example. It wouldn’t standdo out as reading is a common hobby.

*However,* engaging in a passion while having work or income to live on AND the hobby comes on during free time. Priorities, etc....I know I’m singing to the choir.

My bipolar disorder often leads to “projects” if I’m having a manic episode. It is usually something unrealistic but feels critical and top priority .... all to losing interest after I cycle into depression. Therefore, I can relate to the obsession she has but my bipolar mania symptoms become obvious to others that I’m sick. Some people’s symptoms are more subtle than others.

Of course, we can’t diagnose but please do keep us posted. I wish the best for both of you. I’d have been so grateful to have a caring mother...you take care of YOU, too. Best wishes.