Thanks.

Sometimes taking a giant leap and risk is what is needed. I was necessary for me to do this when I found myself on my own after 22 years of marriage. it was very scary. But I reaped the rewards. I have a great deal of acquaintances now and several I consider close friends. It does take a great deal of work to cultivate relationships and sometimes it can feel overwhelming.

I joined groups. Most libraries and grocery stores have bulletin boards full of news about local clubs, events, and gatherings. In today's world, Meet-Up offers a similar service in that it provides a great deal of opportunities to connect with others. Not just alike interests but opportunities to try something new. I have a number of acquaintances from the mental health community I have met through support groups and the local mental health association. And finally, I did gather up the courage to hit the bar one night. I met a few people and from those friendships grew a dozen more.