Don't ever allow a therapist or their agenda to take over the system. It will seem like you going for their jobs and the pieces, which mean unless that is achieved, isn't what is the best interest continous functioning. It isn't required to stage a death or break down to get certain alters here. I appauld the efforts of system and those that actually acknowledge what is ultimately important, because bad therapy is real. It is you all that actually help keep hope alive that everyone isn't getting done wrong.