Tact really isn't your strong suit, is it? LOL!

AS, look, I'm not going to argue with you. My dad is dying and this is already hard on me - I don't need to enter into the drama of people here misunderstanding me and me trying to defend myself. One thing you could consider is that I'm only posting the things that are annoying me -- what I have posted here is not indicative of my focus of the overall situation.

Feelings are not actions... remember that.

Thanks for your perspective anyway,
LMo