Your T says, "I don't hate you"? Is he being serious, not kidding around?

That's... wow. I don't really want my T's to "love" me (attachment issues, I would run away ) but... saying that they "don't hate you" (unless they're just joking) seems really harsh/cruel.

Sorry - I don't mean to make it worse! Just, that seems like such a horribly untherapeutic response!