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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by guilloche View Post
Your T says, "I don't hate you"? Is he being serious, not kidding around?

That's... wow. I don't really want my T's to "love" me (attachment issues, I would run away ) but... saying that they "don't hate you" (unless they're just joking) seems really harsh/cruel.

Sorry - I don't mean to make it worse! Just, that seems like such a horribly untherapeutic response!
I mean he says that if I ask him "Do you hate me?"
And he would not say "I like you" or "I love you", but just "I don't hate you"
Sorry for being unclear

ETA: Maybe he just doesn't want to say it too often and I'm overthinking? I don't know. I'll never ask, because... see above
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Thanks for this!
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