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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
I was shocked about fact he stalks me, I though its over with us but I loved him. He felt guilty and started to see T and take medication. I forgave because he was honest but after this he used to ask me questions about my past and I lost my trust in him....
..I felt happy with him again, then started questions about my fb, i deleted my account...
....I cant be sure he is not reading this. If yes please kill me.
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The one good thing I see is that he was honest about snooping but you do not feel like he trusts you and you deleted your fb account because of him--not because you wanted to. You are not in a healthy relationship. You are not going to heal until you end the relationship or demand better treatment from him (and get it). You do not need to answer questions about things you have done before you met your bf. Tell him you do not want to talk about it.
It is good that you are in therapy. It seems like you are having trouble standing up for your rights in this relationship. Have you talked to your T about why it is hard for you to do this?