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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I'm feeling better about everything. It sort of makes sense. I guess I don't understand why she just won't say the word if it is love she feels. But I guess the point is that love is just a word. The feelings are more important. That makes sense. I'm really happy she cares about me. She's never said it like that. She used to only say "I care". But I always wondered did she care about me or the situation. Now I know she cares about me.
I'm happy I asked her. Even though it didn't turn out how I hoped it would go, at least I know now how she feels about me.
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I feel the same about my therapist not using the word love but talking around it. I do think he loves me most of the time. He wouldn't have stuck with me thru this roller-coaster thru hell the past 7 years. He says I care about you very much. Maybe I'm lying to myself to feel better about it. My former t abused and exploited me with his "love". So I think my current T is hesitant to even say it. However the things he's done for me speak the volumes of the word that he won't say