she asked me if I was feeling resentful....and ugh, I guess I am.....at her as well for bringing it up in the first place (a part of me wonders if she believes somehow that everyone, regardless of how they feel should hang out with other people just because it's the norm; and worse still, if I let her stuff influence me to the point of making decisions that I really didn't want to make; or well, if per usual, I'm over-thinking all this and I should just go and eat and drink a lot and that's it).