I’m not sure if this is true, but my mom insist my dad cheated on her. My dad passed in 2012 so I can’t ask him. However my mom blames me for unhappiness in marriage to my dad. There is some favoritism in my family as I get the brunt of most of their abuse. I’m the family scapegoat, but if I bring this up she says I’m exaggerating. I’m 34. I just realized that my moms an abuser. She sabotages her relationships and blames me. I had lots of health problems as a child, so I was the special needs child.

Also how do I get answers about if it’s true or not about what my dad did. Also I suspect that my mom may not be my real mom. My mom treats me like I don’t belong.