i agree. if someone is hitting on me i want my boyfriend to at least be a little mad. once it gets to the point of accusing and stuff thats too far. but i think, to me at least, it shows to me that he cares. and the same goes for him. if a guy just sat there and watched me flirt or something i would think to myself "well, he must not want me very much if he doesnt care that some guy is hitting on me". might be me being insecure but i like it sometimes.

just like sometimes i want him to sit back and let me fight my own battles but sometimes i want him to want to kick some ***. not that i actually want him to get in a fight... but i want him to want to. why are we so weird? lol. no wonder guys dont understand us.