Ok, so another dilemma!! There is one guy that I'm REALLY digging immensely, the one I've been writing about. BUT we've only had two real dates and one impromptu surprise semi-date. I am talking to two other men online whom I have not met yet.

I feel it's too early (three dates in...) to commit to let's say his name is Jim. BUT, I also don't know if I really want to meet up with these two other men because I don't want to let Jim to think I am exploring and not so into him. I also don't want to lie to him.

Is it best to play the field and meet these other two men because it's too early to commit to Jim. or is it best to tell them that I've met someone I want to explore things with? I don't know how to do this!!!!