I find that 'jealousy' is venom. It doesn't strengthen, it weakens. The person you're jealous over may feel untrusted, mad, angry, and hurt. Some people feel the need to 'hear' the jealousy to feel better about themselves but why can't positive feedback do the same thing? Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...describes the relationship and how men and women need to hear it.
I find jealousy is so hurtful. It's something to be avoided.
Good Luck
Ocean

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kimmydawn said:
I don't have a jealous bone in my body...literally. I don't think I've ever in my life been jealous with my husband, boyfriends, etc...ever.

Me and hubby were talking. Do you think a little jealousy (not the big stuff) is a good thing in a long-term relationship?

I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts on the "little" jealousies (not extreme or ongoing in a detrimental way) in a relationship. Does it feel good/bad/indifferent and why?

I appreciate it.

KD

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