I encourage everyone to be who they want to be. I've always believed sexuality is a private matter, and that no one "has to" disclose their sexuality to any one. If you want to tell others about your sexuality, but are not ready to, then you don't have to.

I've met many lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and trans individuals who never have and will never disclose their sexuality at work, or to their own parents.

If you want to have the courage to tell someone you are trans, it will take time. Plus, once your transition begins, many will question you. Believe it or not, many of these people will see your transition even before you have a chance to tell them. The best way to get courage is to love yourself as much as you can, and to get to know the person on a deeper level than just small talk.