Do they cone to you for emotional support & caring when they need it? Just wondering.

Sometimes people with money meet those desires but are very shallow when emotional issues are in need of being met.

You cant buy love with money, only temporary fun. Be their living & caring person. They are not necessarily choosing him over you they are just choosing things offered to them by that person.

Also no matter what they say....you gave up those things for your well being not because you didnt want them. Maybe a better perspective would help. When things come across as jealousy to others they dobt respond well to that even if its NOT where you are really coming from.

Just a thought. Have a friend who struggles with this too