my past girlfriends (not all, but most) would tell me unless i showed a little jealousy, i must nt love them enough, used jealousy to express their love for me...

i didnt want to be that way... jealousy wrecked my relationships when i couldnt comfort her with enough reassurance... i always wished she had more security and didnt poke holes in something that otherwise might have floated...

not to mention the great upsets and mix ups that to me, were entirely un-necessary...

i cant see any part of jealosy as healthy..