I do NOT tell my T anything to do with how much I actually like her, count on her and respect her opinion. I'm way more obsessed with her than I think that she realizes. About 2 months in she went on a 3 week vacation and had asked if she should set up a back-up counselor for while she was away and I said it wasn't necessary. When she returned, I had been fine without her and told her that and I really feel like I saw a wave of disappointment or maybe it was relief come over her face. But now, I am wayyyyy more attached and I think that she thinks that if I were going to be attached it would have shown when she was on her 3 week trip.