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Originally Posted by Arbie
He'll claim to you and to the world that you're the one abusing him. Any mistake you've ever made in your life will be held against you, and since we all make mistakes, he *will* find something to hold against you. He'll make you out to be a monster.
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THIS. Once I used the word "abuse" with him, suddenly I was the abuser. It was so confusing. He's gone and I'm still kind of confused about it. Was I abusive too? Maybe. I don't know. Ugh.