Soliaree, stop
thinking so much; looks like you're pretty bad at it at the moment

That's the only thing wrong with you that I can see, you have a glitch in your thinker because everyone else keeps throwing spanners into it.
You're the right size, it's the pants that don't fit! Come here instead of putting up with your daughter's pouts, your husband's insecurities, and we all know about work! We'll take care of you here.