nowhere - it sounds like your exes were using jealousy solely as expression of love. were talking about just a little. i used to be jealous to that point but not so much anymore. but still... i dont want my boyfriend to go around flirting with a bunch of girls - especially because he has no clue what flirting is lol. so ill tell him "you know that girl was just fliring with you?" and he would just look at me like "youre crazy"

some guys take another guy hitting on his girlfriend as a compliment... i don't take another girl hitting on my boyfriend that way.