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Originally Posted by NP_Complete
THIS. Once I used the word "abuse" with him, suddenly I was the abuser. It was so confusing. He's gone and I'm still kind of confused about it. Was I abusive too? Maybe. I don't know. Ugh.
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Since nobody's perfect, it would be impossible not to have done something wrong at some point. He wants you to feel insecure about it. If he can convince you that you deserved his mistreatment, he can feel justified.