I understand what you are saying but honestly we can’t expect such devotion to this man from alisa.

She hasn’t see this guy for over a year at least, he does not want to see her yet another year, he lives in a different country, he doesn’t want to talk to her on the phone and they only communicate via her writing messages, plus he wants to break up with her.

Even if his stories are true (which is unlikely) it’s unrealstic to expect her to be devoted to this man simply because he has mental illness. It’s not like she married him for better or worse. They aren’t even a romantic couple. He doesn’t even want to be with her. Why is she expected to be devoted?