Hey Artchic528! It's good to see you here! I've missed you! I do know the feeling of having a mom and dad who seem to just say to hell with it and not work on their issues. Both very selfish and thoughtless. I still feel, at least with my mom, that there is little peace. Frankly, if only one of us wants the peace that comes with working though things, then it's never going to be resolved if she does nothing.

I wish you good things and tranquility this holiday season! Cat