Pleased to hear that you primary care physician responded to your email and that he would take you seriously. Always good to follow up on things to do with the heart. Even it is to rule it out or in.
Will your doctor address your anxiety issues?
Some men don't respect women no matter what line of work they have. Other men can be kind and caring. Women can be the same too. I am sorry you were triggered. Fingers crossed that specialist you get sent to is a kind soul who knows their job.