I've never been jealous of boyfriends/men and the only one's that have been jealous about me were the "crazy" jealous kind. One boyfriend decided if I wasn't with him, I was obviously with some other man! He use to keep track of his ex-wife's birth control too, make sure it wasn't missing/being used except with him. If he wasn't sure, then obviously she was sleeping around.

My husband enjoys looking at other women and flirting but I'm secure in his love of me so take it as a personal attribute of his; he's a playful man and likes "beauty" and I don't have any trouble there. So he has good taste? That would include me :-) However, he's personally engaged with only me, doesn't "know" or seek to know the other women very personally. I think everyone has fantasies and I don't begrudge him his or he, mine. He doesn't notice details like I do so would probably miss my making eyes at another guy or another guy making eyes at me; I'd have to point it out to him, LOL.