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Ocean13 said:
I think you're setting yourself up for trouble. If it happened once it's possible it can happen again.
Rape is a control issue.

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I agree with this statement to a certain point..... for while rape is often about control I have read stories where people have raped out of nothing more than the need or want of mere pleasure and as a young guy (middle school) I might consider (not condone) that his hormones got the best of him when the two of them were being intimate together and he had not yet learned enough to respect her as a female and a person............. what he did as a child should not define him as a man if he has truly learned and changed from that incident.

Now - I say this for I was not there personally when this event took place - therefore, I do not how far it had actually went between the two of them until he ejaculated....... was he already in the process of entering her when she decided this was not right at the moment (and as a young guy ready to pop at the site of a breast - he had an orgasm before he could stop it) or was it an all out rape - where they were along and he took advantage of the situation?

((( hugs ))) to all.