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Originally Posted by captaineo
My dear friends, again I write and I share my thoughts with you seeking advice for my heart. I’m a divorcee with two beautiful daughters from an interracial marriage living in Japan, I’m S/A Venezuelan. Very very different cultures, though I love Japan. And I mean I love it but society can easily be cruel to foreigners in a passive aggressive manner and somehow I lost my self and lost my family in the way.
Now I’m back here and I can see my kids very every now and then. And I have a new person I’m seeing and she has been great to me, but is difficult for me as I still love my ex wife so much. And i miss my kids, my father died two months ago and my ex didn’t say anything. I don’t know what to do. The holidays are coming, and all is too overwhelming.
What do you guys recommend should I cut off my current relation with this new angel of a person?
Please appreciate your advise
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I guess I don't know everything about your situation. From what I read here I wonder why would you want to possibly cut off your relationship with whom you are seeing now? Did your ex wife just leave you? Does your ex wife care to speak to you now?
In my opinion it would be hard for me to just cut out a good relationship, unless if it's something to be suspicious about. Depression can cause difficulties in relationships. But also depression can very much cause you to believe that you don't deserve something good. That seems to be the case for me.
I hope I've been some help to you.