Not sure what you mean by judgement. At no point I expressed judgement but rather personal level of comfort. Preferring things certain way isn’t a judgement

You said you are uncomfortable with the whole thing. I said I’d be uncomfortable too with meeting new partners of anybody if people are still married.

In my experience many children (of any age) would be apprehensive meeting new partners of their parents if parents are still married. Nothing to do with judgement. Just level of comfort. I don’t know what you mean by “what of it”.

If it doesn’t bother you, then you can just dismiss my opinion and my post. Didn’t mean to upset you.