My relationship is stable, we fight less than most married couples and when we do it is usually very civilized. When I wasn't medicated this was not the case and we would fight sometimes a lot and sometimes extreme (yelling, slamming doors, crying kind of fights). We are quite settled now and I'm thankful for the help of medication. Even when I do have symptoms that interfere with our relationship, he tells me to talk to my doc and make an appointment with my therapist, I do it, and all is usually well within a month or less. He is more understanding and supportive if he knows I'm trying to be better and do better. I take responsibility for my mental health and my actions, I apologize and try to understand his feelings, and he doesn't judge me. We really do compliment each other. We are best friends and I can tell him anything. He is my rock, and I adore him.
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