Exactly how my first T "got me" at start. And I found out first hand, gradually, how big a s*it show his online media is, how manipulative, untrue, and self-absorbed. I would not feel comfortable posting links to my ex-Ts stuff, just wanted to say it was my experience. My second T (who was much more honest and realistic) actually told me several times how his website is a marketing strategy and an exaggeration. And it is, I learned that as well from experience.